1: so I need some advice. Me and one of my really good guy friends both like each other. but, he has a girlfriend. Long story short though, he's kinda conflicted because him and his gf have been having problems and fighting and he doesn't know what to do because of his feelings for. He's a super nice guy, don't think any less of him, but it's just hard because they've been dating for about 4 years. So anyway, I have a friends with benefits, and part of me wants to stop hooking up with him
I know it will probably come off as harsh, but I think you should let your guy friend and his girlfriend work things out, however they end up. Be the girl who is there for him when/if they break up, not the trigger for the breakup. Maybe ask him where he stands. Do you know for a fact he likes you, or are you just assuming? Maybe talk to the benefriend too. Get him on the same page. Make sure he knows things are temporary. If it makes you feel bad to be hooking up with him you should probably stop, not because you’re waiting for someone else, but because it just doesn’t feel right to you. I hope that was at least a little helpful :3.